I really don’t know if I made the right decision or if I was foolish, but I need to hear from people here. I just started a new job about two weeks ago in a massage place. I was very happy when I got the job because things have been really tough at home, and my husband has been the only one carrying the family financially. I felt relieved that I would finally be able to support him and contribute something to the house. The first week went smoothly. I attended to clients, gave them proper massage, and did everything I was taught. I never suspected that there was anything shady going on there. Then last weekend, a male client came in and after the session he started asking me for something extra. At first, I didn’t understand, but then he mentioned “happy ending.” I was shocked. I told him straight that I don’t do that, that my job was only massage. He insisted, but I stood my ground and told him I am married and I cannot do such a thing. He got upset and left angrily. Not long after, my boss called me into the office. She said the man had reported that I refused him. I tried to explain myself, thinking my boss would support me, but to my greatest surprise she told me that in their line of work, it is normal to give a client what he wants, including “happy ending.” I told her respectfully that I cannot do that, I am married, and I don’t want to bring shame to myself and my family. She looked me in the face and told me that I should go and look for a job suitable for married women, because this one is not for me. Right there, she told me not to bother coming back again. I left in tears, carrying my bag, not even knowing what to tell my husband when I get home. Now, I am so confused. Should I have just done it, seeing that many other girls there seem comfortable with it? Did I overreact because of my marital status? Was my boss right that some jobs are not meant for married people? The worst part is that I feel embarrassed even writing this because I didn’t know I was walking into such a job. I just wanted to earn money the clean way. But I also feel relieved that I stood my ground, because deep inside me, I know I would never be able to forgive myself if I had agreed. Please, I need advice. Did I make the right choice? How do I even explain this to my husband without him thinking less of me? Should I just forget about it and move on, or should I fight for my job back?