My husband was very abusive to me, and after enduring so much pain, I finally had to divorce him. It was one of the hardest decisions I’ve ever made. But here’s my confession. I recently employed a guy who looks exactly like my ex-husband, and since then, I’ve been acting in ways I can’t fully explain. I deliberately pay his salary late, sometimes I even owe him for two months. I get irritated over little things and shout at him for no reason. Strangely, every time I do these things, I feel a certain level of satisfaction, like I’m indirectly dealing with my ex-husband and making him pay for all the emotional and physical pain he caused me. I know it sounds terrible, but part of me feels justified, considering what I went through in that marriage. At the same time, another part of me feels guilty because this man I employed has done nothing wrong, apart from looking like someone who hurt me deeply. Would you say I’m a horrible boss, or am I just dealing with my past trauma the only way I know how?