What my Female Boss expects us to be doing to her

What my Female Boss expects us to be doing to her - NoCV

My boss is a woman and she is very strict but professional in her approach. I do not have any problem with that because I know every workplace has its own culture. However, what has been bothering me is something I find very strange. Each time she pays us our salaries, she expects us to thank her. The first time it happened, I was confused because to me, salary is not a gift. It is something I worked for and earned, so why should I be expected to thank her like she is doing me a personal favour? I tried to let it go, but when it happened again, I asked my colleagues about it, thinking they might also find it strange. To my greatest surprise, they said it is normal and they all thank her anytime salary is paid. Some even accused me of being rude and badly brought up for questioning it. One even went as far as saying that I should be careful before I lose my job because our boss does not like employees who act ungrateful. This whole thing has been bothering me because I feel like I am being forced to play along with something that does not make sense. I know respect is important, but should respect mean pretending that salary is a favour and not my right as a worker? Do you think I am wrong for feeling this way or do you believe my colleagues are simply used to a toxic system that I am just noticing?

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