My husband recently brought his cousin to stay with us, and out of goodwill, he decided to employ him as his driver. His reason was that since the young man was jobless, at least he should have something that would put small money in his pocket every month. Apart from driving my husband, this cousin also drives me around whenever I need to go out. Not long after, this same cousin started telling me things that began to break my heart. He told me that whenever he drives my husband, they usually end up in one hotel where my husband would meet with his side chick. According to him, my husband always warns him never to tell me about it because he would lose his job if I ever found out. Each time he said this, it would make me feel so sad inside. I tried, in my own way, to stylishly ask my husband if there was someone else in his life, but anytime I raised the matter, he would flare up in anger and we would end up quarreling. Then one period when my husband travelled, this cousin volunteered to take me to the same hotel my husband allegedly frequented. Out of curiosity and pain, I agreed. When he took me there, my emotions could not handle it, I broke down in tears. At that point, he tried to comfort me by putting his arm around me. Maybe it was because of all the pain I was carrying in my heart, but I allowed my emotions to get the better of me. I kissed him, and before I could think clearly, I told him to book a room in that same hotel my husband was said to be using. He did, and I ended up sleeping with him. Since he was also living in our house, things did not stop there. Whenever my daughter was in school during the day, I would sneak into his room to sleep with him, and at night, after putting my daughter to bed, I would invite him into my matrimonial bedroom. This continued even after my husband returned. We always found a way to continue until recently, when everything changed. The cousin came to me one day and said we had to stop because he was already in a committed relationship. Then he dropped a shocker. He confessed that he had lied about my husband cheating on me. He admitted that he never knew whether my husband was cheating or not. He said he made up those stories because he had vowed from the very day he became a driver in our home that he would destroy me. According to him, his happiest moments were whenever he saw me sad and broken by his lies. He said tricking me into thinking he could lose his job if I exposed him was always the highlight of his day. When I asked him why, he said it was because he was convinced that I was the one who suggested to my husband to employ him as a driver, and he could not understand why my husband didn’t bring someone from my own family side instead. The painful part of this whole thing is that I was even against employing him at first. I told my husband it didn’t look good for his cousin to be his driver. It was only when my husband promised to help his cousin find a better job later that I finally agreed. I even went as far as looking out for good opportunities for him, not knowing that he was only deceiving me and secretly plotting against me. Now, I am pregnant with my second child, and I know this pregnancy is not my husband’s but his cousin’s. I have already decided to pin the pregnancy on my husband because that is the only way I feel I can survive this. Where I need advice now is this. How do I convince my husband to sack his cousin and send him out of our house without my husband finding out all the things that happened behind his back? Please, I am begging this community for guidance.