There is this lady I work with, we are both civil servants in the same organization. Apart from the government salary that she collects, she also runs her own side business that is doing very well. She sells man-power products. Now, here is my problem. My husband is not meeting my needs in the bedroom and honestly, I am very frustrated. This my colleague, I always see the reviews women drop on her social media pages. They are always talking about how her products work wonders, how their husbands now make their bed shake and how their legs are shaking every night. Whenever I read those reviews, my body will just be doing me somehow, and I will start wishing my husband could be like that too. I have been seriously considering approaching her so she can recommend something for my husband. But the issue is, because we work in the same place, I am scared. What if she later starts using me as an example that I also bought from her? What if gist spreads in the office that I married a man who is not man enough? That kind of embarrassment, I don’t think I can handle it. It is this fear that has been holding me back. But at the same time, I don’t know how long I can continue to endure my husband’s inadequacy. The frustration is too much, and sometimes I am scared I might end up cheating on him just to satisfy myself. Please, if you were in my shoes, what would you do? Should I risk approaching my colleague and hope she keeps it private, or should I just keep suffering in silence until one day I lose control?