I work as his secretary, and he is cheating on me with his wife. When we first started going out and sleeping together, I only agreed to it because he told me he and his wife were no longer intimate. That they were just like roommates. Honestly, his wife is not even good-looking, and for someone like me, it felt very demeaning to be sharing a man with her. Because of this, he promised me he would never sleep with her again. But lately, I’ve noticed how often she comes to the office and how they now relate. It’s very obvious they are back together again both emotionally and physically. What made me 100% certain was when he started telling me things like, “You’re like a daughter to me.” That was the moment I knew I had been completely childzoned. Now, every day I come to work, I feel disgusted whenever I see him. I’m only managing to stay because I haven’t found another job yet. I’m based in Lagos, but I’m open to moving to Abuja or Port Harcourt if I can find any vacancy for a secretary position. Please, I need advice on how to cope for now and if anyone knows of any vacancy, I’ll really appreciate your help.